These dating habits are enough to stop anyone from getting a second date

A brand-new year is here meaning a fresh start in the dating pool and 365 days to go on some, hopefully, successful dates.

In the hopes of helping people secure their second date, decided to see what bad habits people want their dates to leave at home.

They did a survey asking 1,283 people about things they hate their dates doing most, after finding the top 13 habits they asked whether their date would score a second date.

Chewsy found that only 32% of their participants think going for dinner is an ideal first date.

If you have a dinner date on the cards, then here are some things to avoid doing if you want to secure a second date:

Bad habits% of people who wouldn’t go on a second date
Being impolite to waiting staff 94%
Bad table manners 91%
Loud/open mouth chewing 88%
Talking about yourself too much82%
Being on the phone all the time76%
Getting drunk67%
Talking about an ex 63%
Ordering food for you53%
Start eating before their food arrives52%
Attempting to be intimate48%
Stealing food from their plate35%
Putting elbows on the table9%

Unsurprisingly being impolite to waiting staff is the biggest offence you can commit on a date with nearly all participants saying they wouldn’t go on a second date, bad table manners and loud/open mouth chewing also made the top 3.

Double-dipping might be innocent to you but not your date. 1 in 4 people said they wouldn’t go on a second date if they witnessed their date double dip.

If you tend to overdrink during dates, you have a better chance of scoring a second date compared to people who go on their phone during dates (by 9% to be precise).

When asked “what’s the worst thing someone could ask?” on a first date, people said anything relating to how much money you make, invasive questions about family and their finances.

Chewsy also flipped the question and asked people “what’s the best questions someone could ask you?” and most answers centred around being asked about their dreams, interests favourite kind of music and hobbies.

There was a consensus to keep things light and entertaining on the first date. However, some answers steered away from the usual questions the best one being “how much should I send to your bank account?”

Participants were also asked “what foods are a no go on a date / what foods do they tend to avoid?” and the most popular answers were: burritos, burgers, seafood of any kind, anything that is saucy and heavy with garlic.

So, there you have it. Good luck…

Written by QWEERIST editor

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